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Left at Albuquerque

I rode with someone new during my training ride yesterday, a kickass local photographer who told me about how he and his wife had done a 180 on their lives a few years ago. Said “screw The Man.” Set off to pursue their respective passions. Live their passions.

Life is great when you can murmur an inner “fuck yeah,” isn’t it?

Every Saturday morning during my childhood, Looney Tunes was a TV staple. Bugs Bunny and Elmer J. Fudd in a never-ending kill da wabbit saga. And I’ll never forget the “I shoulda taken a left at Albuquerque” episode.

Today’s post is brief, but I’m sick of people who think they’re Bugs Bunny. Shoulda.

Shoulda can go fuck itself right and proper. Shoulda needs to get out of your house, your life, your vocabulary.

While it’s funny when Bugs seems lost after tunneling through America at breakneck speed (and I have no bloody idea how he even knew he turned RIGHT at Albuquerque if he was underground – the suspension of disbelief, I suppose), it’s really not funny for us.

Do yourself a favor today – go grab something by the cajones. Do something that you shoulda done. There’s something entirely liberating about taking a leap of faith. I’m almost four years past mine (look left, look right – yeah – I like it) and I love every one of my OSM!s. I actively pursue finding MORE OS!Ms. And I never think that I shoulda taken the left at Albuquerque. I just take it.

Have a kickass weekend.

  • http://twitter.com/CherylHarrison Cheryl Harrison

    Love, per always. :)

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    <3

  • http://twitter.com/matthewmeeks Matt Meeks

    One of my favorite aphorisms: “Don't should all over yourself”.

  • http://twitter.com/biffster Michael Fierro

    Better than people who write “should of”

  • http://pmerrill.com/ paulmerrill

    Another way to put it – live life without regrets. Don't look backward.

    You seem to be doing a good job on that, Erika.

    Happy weekend.

  • http://twitter.com/Megs_thoughts Megan Carpenter

    Thank you! I really needed this today! Been pondering a couple of business opportunities/possibilities, but I keep waffling. I really needed this push. Who has time for shoulda's and regrets!

  • http://twitter.com/MikeTek Mike Tekula

    Thus spake the Oracle.

  • http://dtpennington.com/ D.T. Pennington

    You can't always sit around waiting for life to drop shit in your lap. Sometimes, you have to shit in your own lap.

  • http://www.randomshelly.com/blog/ Shelly

    Yes Shoulda should go fuck itself for sure… Either do it or forget! And thanks for the link to the video… never heard that! Have had some OS!M and didn't have a description… now I do and need to go find some more! :)

  • http://allthingsmom.blogspot.com Chistinayak

    Thanks for the ink to Steve. Had never heard of OS!Ms, but they are what life is about.
    Thanks!
    P.S. Daughter is getting hamsters this month… thought you might appreciate :-)

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Steve is awesome – saw him speak at SOBCon in Chicago in April.

    Good luck with the hamsters – lemme know if they make it past 4 months! ;-)

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Glad I could enhance your vocabulary today :)

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    What Dave said…

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Awwyeah.

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Grab 'em, lady :) You deserve it.

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Thanks, Paul :) You have a great weekend, too!

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Laughing. So. Hard.

  • http://www.redheadwriting.com The Redhead

    Or shit. Shitting all over yourself is never pretty, either. Or peeing, for that matter.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/GP6BRJT2IHV2O6AEWJPR3DEKIE David

    As one of my mentors says, “Stop should-ing all over yourself.”

    Great post.

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